What You Should Do to Your HATERS

Cause haters are gonna hate, no matter how bad or good you do all things!
You failed, they mocked you. You succeed, they compared you. You did a kind thing, they said you were acting. Smh. 

The truly definition of 'HATERS'

Is that a TRUE STORY?
Yep, that's why we call them 'haters'.

Sometimes, I myself wonder and feel pity on some people who proudly show themselves as haters. I mean, don't they feel ashamed with what they are doing? They just embarrass themselves by showing how rotten their hearts, minds, and mouths publicly. Meanwhile, you know that people with good attitude, kind heart, and nice manner are always well-liked and loved. 

Another thing that makes me more wonder is; don't they have a job or anything to do to be productive and useful for communities and countries? Cause I see there's no benefit to be haters. They will be just sitting in front of their screen as mouse potatoes and typing the nasty words to harass other people they don't even know.

Funny, but that's what a hater does!

My suggestion to these worms is they should do that thing to themselves. Put the gun against their temples, they have to experience the feeling of being hated and bullied by others. My mom always teaches me this: If you don't wanna be hit, don't hit. If you don't wanna be hurt, don't hurt. I believe, if all people realize this concept, the world will be as peaceful as heaven. No war, no evilness, no haters!

Whatever they do, haters are always there to show how miserable their lives are and that's why they envy and hate other people who can achieve and have better things in their lives.

In this writing, I will share some things to do to your haters, if you have any.

1.   Ignore them

It’s kind of difficult thing to do, but you should do this first choice. Why? It’s simply because haters are like fart. They smell like death but you can’t see them for real. They usually speak nonsense on social media like a super bass speaker, but hide like a coward chicken. When you take care of them, they can’t be happier to do what a hater should do. Don’t waste your precious time to breathe in the fart that will kill you. It somehow will be blown by the air and all you need to do is leave the contagious area. In other words, they will get bored and dismiss themselves gradually when you ignore them.

2.      Shake it off! 

Shake it off, shake it off!

Yup, it’s Taylor Swift’s song. I think she’s also annoyed with countless haters she has. ‘Shake it off’ here means ‘to beat an opponent or to free yourself from someone or something that is limiting you’ (Cambridge Advanced Learner’s Dictionary). I just want to make sure about the literary meaning before talking about it further. The words ‘opponent’ and ‘someone that is limiting you’ clearly refer to your haters. While ‘something that is limiting you’ definitely tells about what your haters do to you which intentionally limits you, such as mocking, harassing, and bullying. 

If your haters still annoy you even when you have ignored them, then shake them off! Beat them with your achievements and prove that they are not your level to beat. They are too easy. One thing to remember is never reply hate with hate. It will just downgrade and make yourself as cheap as them. You don’t want to be like them, for sure.

3.   Be kind to all people including your haters

My mom also reminds me, “Help the less fortune”. So, it’s better to be kind and help your haters when they are in needs. You know that no one lives without problems, including your haters. When they have problem and you help them, it will be like putting hot coal upon their heads and then you apply cold water to that burned area. They will be ashamed to receive your help.

4.   Keep going on what you have been doing

Show your haters that your life is amazing with or without them. Your haters may be as annoying as a noisy mosquito, but you can always turn your favorite music louder to make that noisy mosquito soundless. Do whatever you love and never let your haters limit you. Keep going on your effort and live your life. You are the one who is in charge to live your life, not other people. 

They don't even know that actually I can fly :D

5.   Thank them for existing in your life

The higher a tree grows, the stronger the wind striking it. You need to have a strong root to hold on. Never let yourself fall down with a crash just because you have haters. If I may say, haters are actually confused biggest fans who envy you for being who you are. They spend their times on stalking, commenting, and talking nonsense about you. No fans will spend their time on people they don’t like, won’t they? Thank them for making you realize that you have something good in your life that makes other people envy. Thank them for dividing your precious self from cheap people like them. Thank them for training you to be a patient forgivable person.

Time flies and people change. Don’t waste your time to take care of what doesn’t make you happy. Keep having a beautiful soul, mind, and heart. A precious person like you is someone that people always want to meet. That’s what makes you different from those haters.

P.S. 
There's always a very thin line between hate and love :D